have you all ever wondered how true the saying is... ' Its easy to be friends, its hard to maintain a relationsip, and its even harder keeping a marriage on the go'.. why is it relatively easy to maintain longterm friendships, but yet it seems so difficult to quarrel with your partner over seemingly trival things??? is it because of gender differences???

hmmm... humans..interestingly frightening complexities...

no offense to ppl.. or those who are religious, its just an offhand thought.
what would happen to the human civilisation if adam and eve didn't partake the apple from the tree of knowlegde back in the Garden of Eden?? and.. why would God want to plant such a tree??is it because He knew that the devil is going to persuade adam and eve to go against His commands???

humans are supposedly kind in nature.. that chinese saying of ' ren xin ben shan', then who started the evilness?? if we are kind, why would we begin to allow the seeds of greed, jeulously and etc to be rooted and blossomed in this world?? is it really because we are kind, which makes us more guilliable to lies and deception???hmmm...

good alw triumph in the end.. but then why are there stories or cases that the bad guy is usually the last person to die???